Tuesday, April 12, 2016
Sunday, February 21, 2016
The Manitoba Museum
Today we decided that it was time to finally
visit the Manitoba Museum, here in Winnipeg. What an amazing experience!
I highly recommend that. It was a nice
surprise seeing what those walls so close to downtown are hiding. It
worth every cent you spend in there.
First we visited the Earth Explorers area.
That was nice, not so super surprising, but interesting. You will find beautiful
images and videos to see, but not too much to experiment though.
The amazing part was, however, the Museum
venue. It was unexpected to us, to be honest. My daughter didn’t even want to
go. She ended up loving it and having lots of fun!
What an amazing exposition they have there.
I can tell you: take your kids to the museum. Go yourself and explore it. Do
not leave the city without knowing this museum.
You are going to learn about human history
and natural history. You are going to learn
about how Manitoba was formed and most important: you are going to experiment
it. You will board a pirate ship and you will learn that the museum was built
around the ship after it was brought and place it there.
You will have fun. You will learn and you
will love it. I really don't want to kill your experience there by telling you all the experience we had. In my opinion, you have to see and feel it by yourself. I could not help but share with you, though, that it is an awesome place to spend some time in. Grab a good pair of shoes and walk the museum! I hope you like it as much as we did.
Inspiring Daphne Odjig mural. Beautiful.
Impressively detailed mockup
Amazing entrance at the pirate ship
Wednesday, February 10, 2016
Tips for settling in another country with children
When my husband and I decided to immigrate to
Canada, I remember myself having two main concerns. The first one was how to
tell my 8-years old daughter about our decision. The second was how to tell my
mom.
I decided to start with my mom. Actually, that was
unexpectedly easy. She totally supported us, as she always does.
I was more concerned, however, about my daughter.
She is a little shy (maybe “a lot”) and very loyal to her friendships. I knew we had to take care of this with
patience and love.
Once we had sent our visa application, even though
we hadn’t had any answers yet, we decided that it was time to tell her.
So, we started “the” dialogue, simplified here.
Us: We decided to move to Canada, you know that is another
country, right? We will live there.
She: When?
Us: When we have our documents released (and we
briefly explained her the visa process and how it works to live in another
country).
She: What language do they speak?
Us: They speak English.
She: But I don’t speak English.
Us: That’s ok. You will learn it.
And from that moment my heart started to break. I
knew, from my previous experience in London, England, how hard it is not to speak
the country’s language. I also knew how hard it is to leave everything behind. So,
she took some private English classes and also started an English course, where
she only learned the basics, the survival structures. Our intention was to
familiarize her with the language.
We were always open to talk to her about Canada, to
make plans and share our expectations. We were also open to listen her concerns
and to address every fear of her with love and understanding. The hardest one was when she started to
become worried about her friends. And how she would make new friends. Or how
often she would see her friends from Brazil. Not always we have answers to our
children’s questions. But we have tried really hard to make everything as
honest as possible to her. To decide to move to another country isn’t an easy
decision but it was the right one for us.
Here are some tips that we have learned with our
journey so far:
·
Try to explain to your children early on in the
process what is happening, even if they are very young. Make the children feel
involved. Be simple, concise and honest.
·
Don’t anticipate possible questions they may have.
Induce the conversation, but do not make questions for them. Questions will
come up naturally. Answer all the questions they ask with honesty and
sincerity.
·
Don’t diminish their feelings. Do not say things
like “it’s easy”, or “it’s nothing”. Instead say, “it’s not easy, but we can
handle it together, we have each other to support and care.”
·
Take their favorite toys/stuff with you, even
though it may be cheaper to buy them again when you get there. In particular,
use some of your hand luggage allowance for their favorite toy.
·
Take with you as much as possible of the familiar
things your child uses daily. Being able to see familiar stuff make them feel
safe.
·
Take photos of the most silly things that make up
your children’s world: their room, their friends, the grown-ups they know,
the places they go to, the kitchen in their old home. Even take pictures of
their toys. Print the photos and put them in an album that your child can keep
in their new room. More than anything else, it builds a bridge to their new
life.
·
Be around a lot for your children when settling
into your new life. You may be the only familiar face they know and if they can
see that you are calm and happy, they probably will be too. This is the most
challenging thing of all to do because there is so much to do when setting up a
new life abroad, but anything you can do will help.
·
Try to ensure you can get a decent Internet connection
along with a webcam and a Skype account. Allow your children to connect with
family and friends as much as they need. Naturally, they will engage on their
new life and seek for familiar references will became less necessary with the
time.
·
Lastly, tell your children how much you love them.
Always. Everyday. Cuddle, hug, and make them feel safe and loved. Children adapt to new places. They just need (as we need too) some time.
My
daughter is doing very well. We are super proud of her! She has started to
communicate in English just after two months being here! She has made new
friends! She still misses her friends from Brazil, and we are still learning
how to deal with the distance from our families. But, more importantly, we are
together!
Wednesday, February 3, 2016
10 tips to smooth your settlement in Winnipeg, Canada
This month my family and I complete 1 year and 5 months leaving in Winnipeg, Canada. As I said before, it has been an amazing journey, with the ups and downs of a new life.
Today, I would like to share with you some tips I’ve learned to
better settle in a new country. That is my experience. It does not mean that it
will work out to everyone. But has been working to us so far.
1. Don’t convert dollars to your home currency
If you are Brazilian, specially, you will be depressed. The
rates are so outrageous right now!
Think on Canadian dollars. As soon as you start doing it you
will have a reference of price and it will make your life easier in terms of
deciding the purchases you will need to make. And don’t go crazy on buying
everything you see in front of you. Although some stuff seems cheap, trust me:
it’s not. Money flies away before you know it!
2. If you ask, many will help
I noticed that if you ask for help, many people would try to
help you out. It doesn’t seem, however, that Canadians will interfere on your
life. I guess this is not considered acceptable to them. So, if you need, ask!
There are a lot of good people out there. And don’t forget to help others too.
It’s always a cycle.
3. Canadians expect a firm handshake when you are introduced
Your handshake must be
firm. It indicates that you are both, open-minded and confident. That’s very
important as a first impression, especially if you are meeting new people and
making new friends. If you are Brazilian, don’t kiss. Just don’t.
4. Appearances matter
In the school environment as much as in the work place,
remember: unfortunately everybody gets a first impression just looking at you.
I know this impression can change, and probably will, but do yourself a favor:
show of your happiness and pleasure on meeting them.
5. Winter
Ok, Winnipeg is cold. Canada can be very cold depending on where
you are from. That’s it. Use proper clothes. Life doesn’t end at the winter.
And the sun will come shinny and bright.
6. Get a local certificate
Is important to any employer in the world to know that the
employee has knowledge and skills to fulfill the job. Getting a local
certificate by going to a Canadian Institution make them trust in you quicker.
And lets face the truth: you will build a network and will make friends! That’s
a perfect deal.
7. Showcase your soft
skills
Especially if you are starting a new career. Skills such as
leadership, strong work ethics, positive attitude towards your life, good
communications skills, time management abilities, social intelligence,
problem-solving skills, self-confidence, flexibility, adaptability, and so on.
Not just mention them on your resume. Showcase them.
8. Get a survival job
We need the first job. It may not be the dream job. But is the
one that will open your doors to the labour market. Get it. And learn from it. The
first is crucial, but it doesn’t need to be the last.
9. Keep looking for your
dream job
It will happen just if you keep looking (and if you are making
your way for it).
10. Keep enough funds to return
You can tell me: “I haven’t come here to return.” But it feels
safer to know that you can come back home if you need. For any reason!
Other than that, enjoy Canada!
Do you have any other tips to settle in Canada? Share with us by leaving a comment! I would love to hear your story.
Do you have any other tips to settle in Canada? Share with us by leaving a comment! I would love to hear your story.
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